Dear Ex

July 24, 2013

Hello Readers as you can see this is waaayyy different from my usual blog post. Eventhoug it is not my thing to publicly open my private sentiments but I decided to immortalized my private thoughts through my blog. And this is the first of it. Happy Reading ;)

Dear Ex, 

Every now and then I still think about you. The memories just kept flooding back. But it wasn't that painful anymore. In fact it made me smile, I feel so proud that I was able to endure to tell the tale of you and me. Remember how you put me a lot of pain and tears? And yeah we use to say to each other what we both have is a total misery. But funny how I deliberately succumb to a hopeless love that it even took me years to comprehend.

I won't deny the fact that we too have good times together but if I were to balance those good times against our dreadful moments over a scale, well, you can be sure that the bad times weigh heavier than the best. I guess I failed to contemplate the verity in our relationship - Giving you everything you needed and I left nothing for myself. I loved you so much, depended on you so much which made me vulnerable to pain. I was blinded by your insincere promises. And I Keep Hoping that every morning will be different from yesterday. But dear Ex you took away the very happiness in me, the light and the flame. You put me in a corner drifted with shadows, alone and wounded. 

I thought that my suffering is a never ending labyrinth but God do works in puzzling ways. Those questions i used to ask that were never answered is much clearer now. God put you in my life for a reason and that reason is to teach me lessons that made me the strongest and wisest person that I am today.
Now, I am a person capable of giving selfless love without leaving something for myself. I learned that a relationship shouldn't be a one way street

There must be balance in everything and  In order for a relationship to work, 2 people must exert their effort to make it work. No one can dance an absolute Tango alone, two heads are better than one as they say.

 Second, I learn to embrace life even more- holding back myself on something that will make me happy because of love is a huge mistake. We do not have a lifetime to fulfill our dreams and wasting every second on incompetent relationship is a total waste of time. Regrets is the hardest to live with, so i learned to be wise and endow my time on the right people and on the right circumstances. 

I am happy now, I have found the person who showed me love you never gave me.  Now you see my dear Ex? I am no longer the weakling you thought i was and i owe everything to you. With this Thank you.

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  1. This is so meaningful (: x it really helped me a lot as I am kind of in the moving on phase now. (: Do you mind if we follow each other ? Do let me know on my blog (:

  2. Great post ;)

  3. love this post and your blog!

  4. this is a fantastic post! i know a few people who can stand to read those 12 signs. break ups are hard, but sometimes they are so necessary.

    p.s. thanks for suggesting that we follow each other. i am now following you and i look forward to you following me back :)

  5. Yes, of course we can follow each other. I am already ready and now's your turn :):)

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  7. THats a great read! love to read somethng like ths again from ur blog mwahugzz!